Tuesday, December 21, 2010

REVENGE!

If a person does something wrong or hurtful to you, you may feel obliged to do the same to them. This is called revenge, but there are many ways to refer to this satisfying act. They are listed below:

to get revenge - My boss fired me, but I got revenge by burning down his house.

to get someone back - The little boy called me bad names, but I got him back by pushing him in the mud.

to get even - I have to get even with Timmy for slashing my bike tires.

to pay someone back - My brother stole my wife, so I paid him back by poisoning him.



Common Expressions

"It's payback time." - Meaning: It's time to get revenge.

"Revenge is a dish best served cold." - Meaning: Revenge is best when it's cruel.

"Don't get mad. Get even!" - Meaning: It's better to get revenge than be angry.

Monday, December 6, 2010

The Truth

A half truth is a statement that is true, but it neglects an important piece of information. A half truth is, therefore, a misleading truth. For example, Kevin has a wife who doesn't like his smoking. He promised her that he would quit. One night, he went to the bar with his friends. He smoked a few cigarettes outside the bar. When he comes home, his wife smells smoke. She asks, "Were you smoking at the bar with your friends?" He answers, "No, I didn't smoke at the bar." However, he smoked outside of the bar, and he didn't tell his wife. This is a half truth.

To tell you the truth or Truth be told is an expression said before telling an unpleasant or difficult truth. Someone usually asks a question, and what follows is an unpleasant answer.

Example:

#1) Wife: "Do you want me to cook pasta tonight?" Husband: "To tell you the truth, I don't like your pasta."

#2) Ex-boyfriend: "Why did you break up with me?" Ex-girlfriend: "Truth be told, I wasn't sexually interested in you."

To be true to someone means to be loyal or faithful to someone.

Example: Daniel is true to his friends, showing all of them loyalty and respect. That's why his relationships are so strong.

To be untrue to someone means to be disloyal or unfaithful to someone, usually it means cheating on your spouse or lover.

Example: She accused me of being untrue to her, but I found out she was the one that cheated on me.

Sunday, December 5, 2010

Prevention

to stop/keep someone from doing something
Example: #1) My wife stopped me from quitting my job by reminding me of the poor job market. #2) I kept my best friend from making a big mistake.


to prevent something
Example: The hero prevented a robbery by tackling the robber.


to hold someone back -- to prevent someone from doing something, positive or negative.
Example: #1) I wanted to punch the guy, but my friends held me back. #2) I dream of world travel, but my family is holding me back.


to be tied down -- to be connected to something/someone that keeps you from doing something, probably related to a relationship or marriage.
Example: He is hesitant to get married because he doesn't want to be tied down.


to be tied up with something-- to be busy with something that prevents you from doing other things.
Example: I would love to help you, but I'm tied up with work at the moment.


"My hands are tied." -- "There's nothing I can do."
Example: Even though I don't like the decision, it came from the boss. My hands are tied.

Thursday, November 4, 2010

itch and scratch

Many English learners use the terms itch and scratch incorrectly. The most common error is using the word itch in place of scratch. This is how to use the terms correctly.

to itch (verb) - is a physical sensation.
I have been wearing the same shirt for three days and now my skin itches.
I didn't take a shower this morning, so my scalp itches.

itchy (adj) - describes an object that makes you itch.
While playing in the beach, I got sand in my hair and it was itchy.
I don't like to wear that sweater because it's itchy.

itch (noun) - is a part of your body that itches.
I have an itch on my back. I should clean my sheets.
I have an itch on my toes. I think it's a mosquito bite.

to scratch (verb) - is the action that relieves your itch.
I scratched the mosquito bite too much, and now it's swollen.
There's an itch on my back, but I can't reach it. Would you scratch it for me?


Scratch Alternatives
scratchy (adj) - is usually used just to describe voices.
I was sick last weekend and my voice is still scratchy.

scratched (adj) - can be used to describe some objects.
I will not buy this record. It is scratched.
My friend borrowed my DVD, and now it's scratched.

Hand Actions

There are many things we use are hands for, but oftentimes we can't find the appropriate expression for them. This is a list of those actions:

to hold hands
"The lovers were side-by-side, holding hands, as they walked through the park.
"The mother and son held hands as they walked across the street."

to shake hands
"The businessmen all shook hands before starting the meeting."
"My greatest honor was shaking hands with the president."

to fold one's hands
"The congregation folded their hands and prayed during the church service."
"I was so desperate that I folded my hands and begged my boss not to fire me."

to hold out one's hands
"The begger held out his hands and asked the pedestrians for money."
"The porter held out his hand for a tip."

to wring one's hands
"While the were giving out awards, I was wringing my hands in anticipation."

trembling hands
"I was so nervous during the presentation that my hands were trembling."

Monday, October 11, 2010

Slipping

There are many definitions for the word slip. Here are a few of the most common expressions for the verb from.

#1) My English skills are slipping. = My English skills are getting worse.

Sample Situation: You used to be proud of your English skills, but now you find it hard to communicate.

#2) It slipped my mind. = I knew about it, but I forgot (temporarily).

Sample Situation: You had an appointment with your friends, but you completely forgot about it and didn't go.

#3) I slipped up. = I made a mistake.

Sample Situation: You were at a party and you tried to kiss your girlfriend's sister.

#4) It just slipped out. = I said it on accident.

Sample Situation: When you argued with your girlfriend, you told your girlfriend to shut up, perhaps adding a swear word or two. You quickly regret saying it.

Sunday, July 25, 2010

Time Verbs

In English, there are expressions for how to use your time. Sometimes, they are related to productivity and the amount of available time, so pay attention to how you use them.


to spend time - This is a neutral expression, which could be pleasant or not. It can be used to avoid mentioning the specific activity that you did, as in the first example.


Example: I spent time with my family last weekend.

I want to spend more time doing things that interest me.

I don't want to spend much time at dinner because I have a lot of work to do at home.

During the project, we spent a lot of time in the planning stage, so we couldn't spend much time preparing a presentation.



to pass time - If you pass time, or time passes, you are discussing the movement of time.


Example: While I was waiting in the airport, I passed the time by reading a book.

Time passes slowly when you're bored, but it passes quickly when you're having fun.



to waste time / waste of time - Time is being used unproductively, or counter-productively, in this case.


Example: I wasted a lot of time in high school hanging out and watching TV.

We worked really hard on our project, but it was a total waste of time because the professor didn't want to see it.

A friend of mine visited the city, but he said it was a waste of time.



to kill time / time to kill - This means you have time to do something, and you are occupying that time with an activity.


Example: I killed some time this afternoon watching some old movies.

My friends and I have all weekend to hang out, so we'll kill some time at the mall.

Because of the summer holiday, I have a lot of time to kill.

I have an appointment tonight, but I still have a few hours to kill. Do you want to go for coffee?

Wednesday, July 21, 2010

Traffic Terms Pt. 2 (Accidents)

The car had a mechanical failure.
It swerved across the road and crashed into a brick wall.
The collision was frightening and the impact could be heard for miles.
The driver went through the windshield, suffering a near-fatal injury.
The car was totaled, so they towed it to the junkyard.
They investigated the accident and found that the brakes had malfunctioned.

Vocabulary:
A mechanical failure is when something mechanical stops working.
To swerve means to leave a straight line; turn.
A car crashes into something.
Collision is the noun for collide; when one thing hits another.
Impact is the force of something striking something else.
The windshield is the front window of a car.
Near-fatal means he almost died.
If a car is totaled, it was damaged so badly that it will never drive again.
To tow a car is to carry it to a different location. This is done by a tow truck.
A malfunction is what happens when something doesn't work properly.

Traffic Terms Pt. 1

The road is a dangerous place, and it comes with its own vocabulary. Try some of the phrases below:


Having the Right-of-way means that you have the right to go first.

To cut SO off means to move quickly into another lane, causing someone to slow down or stop.

A collision happens when something violently strikes something else.

Combined Example: I clearly had the right-of-way, but the car cut me off, nearly causing a collision.


To speed up simply means to go faster.

To ram into someone means to hit someone with intent.

Road rage is the feeling of extreme and uncontrollable anger when driving.

Combined Example: I was so angry that I sped up and rammed into him. I suppose you can call that road rage.


Heavy traffic is what you experience when the roads are extremely busy.

A traffic jam happens when everyone has stopped moving completely.

Combined example: Right now, there’s heavy traffic downtown, but we’re still moving. At least, it isn’t a traffic jam.


To double park means to park next to a car that is parked next to the sidewalk. You cannot do this for long periods of time because the car next to the sidewalk cannot pull out.

To back up means to move backwards in a car.

Combined example: We were double parked on the street, so I had to back up to let him out.

Monday, July 19, 2010

Flip

One word that can be underused by English learners is Flip. There are a few common uses and expressions for the word, as seen below:

to flip / to do a flip - for a person or object this means to turn over completly (or maybe half)
The boy jumped on the trampoline and did a flip.
The SUV turned too quickly and flipped.
The dolphin flipped in the air for the audience.

to flip - in America, it can also mean to be really excited, or really angry
When I said I was getting married, my parents flipped. (excited)
I flipped when I heard I got the acting job. (excited)
When your mother sees this mess, she is going to flip. (angry)

Hot Tip!!! to flip out is the same as to flip, when you're angry. Example: My neighbor flipped out when he saw the damage to his car.


to flip over - this means to turn over on its other side
I flipped over the record to listen to the other side.
Flip over the pancake or it will burn!
The turtle was on its back, trying very hard to flip over.

to flip (someone) off / to flip off (someone) - this means showing someone your middle finger, it's rude, you're probably angry
I got arrested for flipping off a policeman.
The taxi driver almost hit me with his car, and flipped me off as he passed.

Embarrassment

Embarrassed is often used too broadly by Korean, English learners. The best way to understand this and other feelings is to tell you situations where you would feel this way.

to be embarrassed
I was embarrassed when I walked into the woman's toilet by mistake.
Embarrassingly, I spilled coffee all over my shirt.
I tried to approach a pretty girl, but embarrassed myself by tripping on my own feet.

to feel/be awkward (for situations that are mutually embarrassing)
We hadn't met before, so it was a very awkward dinner.
During our date, I felt very awkward asking her to pay for half the meal.
I briefly lost my presentation notes, and I spent a few awkward minutes looking for them.

to be frustrated (when you want something to happen, but it doesn't)
I was very frustrated by the lack of cooperation on our team.
It's very frustrating when my computer stops working.
It's frustrating talking to my husband about anything. He doesn't listen.

to (be) upset
I was upset when my friend criticized me.
The newspaper article upset me.
It's always upsetting when a family breaks up.

Wednesday, July 14, 2010

Schedule and Appointments

Your schedule is the list of "things" you need to do throughout the day. It is normally organized by day and time. Those "things" are called appointments. Look at the following dialogue to see the difference:

Person A: Are you busy these days?
Person B: Yes, I have a busy schedule.
Person A: Are you free at 10am tomorrow?
Person B: No, I already have an appointment at 10am, and another one at 11am.
Person A: Would you like to get some lunch then?
Person B: Sorry, I already have a lunch appoinment with my boyfriend.
Person A: You have a boyfriend?


Hot Tip!!! You can use the words together to make the verb schedule an appointment. It has the same meaning as make an appointment.

Example: I tried to schedule an appointment with my psychiatrist, but she was on vacation.


Next, there are some expressions for a busy schedule and a not-so busy schedule:

Busy:
I have a full schedule tomorrow. (no free time)
My schedule is packed. (no free time)
I have a hectic schedule. (busy)
My schedule is tight. (very little gap between appointments)

Not-so Busy: My schedule is open. (a lot of free time)
My schedule is flexible. (I have things to do, but I can do them at different times.)

Even if / Even though / Even when

This is a quick tip I took from my in-class lessons. It's the difference between even if, even though and even when.


even if means you will take an action, despite a possible event that may otherwise deter you.

Example: He's going to the seaside this weekend even if it rains.

Even if you beg me, I won’t give you any money.

Even if I had the money, I wouldn't waste it on buying a car.


even though means you will that you will take (are taking, have taken) an action, despite an event that may otherwise deter you.

Example: I’m going to his birthday party, even though I don’t like him.

Even though my parents don’t approve, we are getting married.

The man wouldn't give money to the poor, even though he was rich.


even when means an event occurs (occurred) routinely despite another event that may otherwise deter it.

Example: Even when it was snowing, he still went for a jog every morning.

He always makes time to be with his family, even when he's really busy at work.

Monday, July 12, 2010

Clothes

to change clothes means putting on new clothes.
Example: I need to go home and change clothes before we go out tonight.
She spilled coffee on her skirt, and she went home to change it.

to change into clothes means putting on different clothes.
Example: It's getting hot, so I'm going to change into shorts and a t-shirt.
Give me a moment, and I'll change into something more comfortable.

to exchange something (for something else) means you took it back to the store and got a new one.
Example: My pants were too small, so I exchanged them for bigger ones.
The outfit was a little old-fashioned, so I exchanged it for something more modern.

to try something on means you wear the clothing before buying it to see how it looks.
Example: Can I try this on? Yes, you can try it on in the dressing room.
This shirt looked better when I tried it on in the store.
When I tried the shoes on, they felt uncomfortable.

to fit means the clothing is the right size for you.
Example: This dress fits me perfectly.
These pants don't fit me. They're a little too loose.
This shirt fits me, but I'm not sure if it's my style.

to suit someone means the clothing is their style and looks good on them. You can also say, "It's your style."
Example: That outfit really suits you. It makes you look thinner.
That blouse really suits you. It's just your color.

to go window shopping is looking at clothing without the intention buying any. Note: do not say, "eye shopping"
Example: I like to go window shopping to see what's in style.
I go shopping every weekend. And if I don't have money, I will just window shop.

Sunday, July 11, 2010

Believe / Believe In / Trust

This another situation where a Korean word (BIT-DO) has two English translations. Believe and Trust are often confused. Likewise, to believe and to believe in have different meanings.

to believe - this is generally only used for trust in one situation.
Example: He told me he was with his friends, and I believe him.
My brother says he wasn't at the Web Cafe' yesterday, but I don't believe him.
My husband promised to give up smoking, but I'll believe it when I see it.


to believe in - this is for belief in the existence of something, or a belief in someone's abilities.
Example: I believe in God and ghosts.
I don't believe in vampires, and I hate the Twilight series.
You can win this race. I believe in you.


to trust - this is stronger than "to believe" and can apply to a general attitude towards someone.
Example: I trust my son, so I don't believe he would cheat.
I would trust you with my life.
Her bad relationships make it difficult to trust men.
Don't trust anyone who promises the world.
I don't trust my government.

Thursday, July 8, 2010

Korean Vocabulary Errors

There are two common Korean vocabulary errors when translating the words, NOL-DA and JAE-MEET-DA. I've heard these mistakes even at a high level.

#1) NOL-DA means to play in English. However, when you become a teenager, you don't really play anymore. As an adult, you usually hang out. Although, you can play something if it's a specific, like a board game or sport.

Examples:
When my sister and I were young, we liked to play with dolls.
The children spent all afternoon playing in the park.

I played basketball in university.
Let's play Monopoly. I haven't played that game in about 10 years.

I hung out with my friends on Friday night.
If you have the chance, let's hang out after work.



#2) JAE-MEET-DA means three different things in English: funny, fun, interesting. These all have different meanings in English, and they should definitely be treated separately. Individually, they have more than one meaning, but I think a rough guide will be more useful than a full description.

If something is fun, it makes you happy and you enjoy it/them.
Example: I had a fun time last night, and I hope we can do it again.
Let's have some fun at the amusement park next weekend.
Barry is a really fun guy, and I hope to see more of him.

If something is funny, it makes you laugh.
Example: The movie was funny, and I couldn't stop laughing.
Jerry is a funny guy. He's always telling jokes.

If something is interesting, it makes you think.
Example: The class was interesting. I feel like I got a lot of new ideas.
The book was very interesting. I couldn't put it down.
Perry is really interesting. I could listen to him talk for hours.


Note: This is a rough guide to fun, funny, and interesting. Consult your dictionary if you think you need more details.

Wednesday, July 7, 2010

As You May Know

When talking about something that the listener might know about already, it's better to introduce it with an expression, such as: "as you (may) know" or "as you (may have) heard".

#1) "As you know" / "As you heard" -- You can use these two expressions when the listener knows the information you will give. Also, the listener knows that you know that they know the information. Including this is helpful because it lets them know you're not just repeating information. Also, you will probably give them additional information.

Example: "As you know. I'm quitting my job next week."
"As you heard, we're going to have company evaluations tomorrow. "

#2) "As you may know" / "As you may have heard" / "As you may be aware" -- This has the same function as the other expressions. However, in this case, you're not sure if the listener already knows. It's also possible that you're speaking to more than one person; some people who know the information, and some people who don't. This is a safe expression because you won't embarass yourself by repeating information, and you won't embarass yourself by claiming the listener knows already when they really don't know.

Example: "As you may know, Alfred is in the hospital."
"As you may have heard, the neighbor's dog is missing."
"As you may be aware, Julia and I have split up."


Additional Expressions: "As you probably know", "As you've probably heard", "As you're probably aware", "As you undoubtedly know"... -- The meaning of these is close to the others, so you can safely follow the logic.

Best of luck!
~~Lance

Forgetting

I've already discussed Memory in one of my posts. Now, I would like to mention some very common expressions related to forgetting.


#1) "It escapes me." -- Sometimes, you know a piece of information (usually a name/title), but you can't immediately think of it. You probably just need a little time to think of it, but at that moment you can say, "It escapes me."

Example: "I've met her before, but her name escapes me."
"I've saw a movies a few weeks ago, but the movie title escapes me at the moment."


#2) "It slipped my mind." -- Sometimes, you may forget to do something. When you explain the situation later, you can say it slipped my mind.

Example: "I knew there was a meeting this morning, but it completely slipped my mind."
"I know you asked me to buy groceries on the way home, but it slipped my mind."


#3) "to take one's mind off (of) something" -- Other times, there is something you want to forget about. Maybe you want to forget temporarily, so you can have a few moments of peace. In these moments, you can say, "...to take my mind off (of)..."

Example: "I'm going on a day trip this weekend to take my mind off of work."
"I'm going to do some heavy drinking to take my mind off my troubles."
"You need to start dating again to take your mind off of your divorce."


#4) "to draw a blank" -- When you're trying to remember some information, you know that you knew it before, but you can't remember, you are drawing a blank.

Example:
"This is frustrating. She told me when her birthday was, but I'm drawing a blank."
"I wish I could remember his name, but I'm drawing a blank."
"Do you know which film stars Robert DeNiro as a taxi driver? I'm drawing a blank."


#5) "to be on the tip of one's tongue" -- Finally, when you almost remember a piece of information (again, usually a name), you can say it's on the tip of my tongue. By the way, this is a very frustrating feeling.

Example: "What is her name? It's on the tip of my tongue."
"Who was that actor in the movie Taxi Driver? His name is on the tip of my tongue."
"What's the capital of Poland? Starts with a 'W'. It's on the tip of my tongue."

Tuesday, July 6, 2010

Showing Preference

These are a few main ways to show preference in English, but sometimes the included grammar is mixed up. Be careful with these terms, especially "to" and "than", infinitive verbs and gerunds.


Prefer

#1a) to prefer something to something else
Example: I prefer motorcycles to cars.

#1b) to prefer doing something to doing something else
Example: I prefer driving a motorcycle to driving a car.
I prefer swimming to running.

#1c) to prefer (to do) something
Note: You can use this to express a preference when the alternative is already known.
Example: Would you like to eat Italian food?
Answer #1 -- No, I would prefer sushi.
Answer #2 -- No, I would prefer to eat sushi.


Would Rather

to rather do something than do something else
Note: This is used for simple present verbs.

Example: I would rather live abroad than stay in my home country.
I would rather go the movies than go to a play.


Like More Than

#1) to like something more than something else
Example: I like weekends more than weekdays.
I like my daughter more than my son.

#2) to like doing something more than doing something else
Example: I like walking in the park more than walking through the city.
I like talking on the phone more than writing emails.

Monday, July 5, 2010

Water Idioms and Expressions

Honestly, I don't like the study of idioms. On average, native English speakers don't use them very often. It's usually reserved for written English, and using them in normal conversation is unnatural. All the same, I will write about idioms once in a while. Furthermore, I promise you: THE IDIOMS I WRITE ABOUT WILL BE USEFUL.

The first ones I discuss will be about water:

#1) a fish out of water - someone who finds themselves in an unnatural setting; someone who is out of their element

example: #1) Rupert is a typical guy, who likes sports and going out with his friends. Whenever he meets his in-laws, he has to be polite. He's like a fish out of water. #2) I'm trying to fit into a regular job, but I feel like a fish out of water.


#2) to keep your head above water - to survive a challenging situation

example: #1) My work is piling up, and I'm desperately trying to keep my head above water. #2) Please don't ask me for any favors. I'm barely keeping my head above water.


#3) watered down - diluted and less potent

example: #1) My whiskey is watered down. Get me a strong drink! #2) The director made a very edgy and controversial film. Then, the film studio got a hold of it and watered it down. #3) You changed my article, and made it into a watered down version.


#4) to tread water - a.) to stay in one place in a body of water by kicking your legs quickly. b.) to do strenuous activity but still not be productive

example a: I can tread water for 15 minutes before my legs get tired.
example b: We all want to make progress in the workplace, but we're only treading water.

Friday, July 2, 2010

Distance #2 (Near, Nearby)

Many English learners make mistakes with the words near and nearby.
The mistakes include when to use them, and where to place them.
Be warned: this is not a simple topic, so think carefully about it.


Near is used when discussing the distance between two objects.
It can be used for the absolute distance between two locations.

Example: The subway station is near my office.
The red light district is near city hall.
The fire station is near the fireworks factory.


Near can also be used for the relative distance between two things.

Example: There's a bear near the picnic baskets. Run away!
This is a long bus ride. Are we near the university yet?
I'm near the police station now. I'll go in for help. (phone)



Nearby can be used when the subject is assumed, but not explicitly mentioned.

Example: The subway station is nearby.
You've suffered a lot today. Do you have any friends or family nearby?
I'm starving. Can we go somewhere nearby to eat?


Nearby can also be used as an adjective for a location.

Example: He goes to a nearby pharmacy to buy his heart medication.
The robbery took place at a nearby restaurant.

Wednesday, June 30, 2010

Distance (Close to, Far from, Not Close To)

Distance is a tricky concept because it can refer to distance in space, time, emotions, or reality. In this post, I'll give you a few ways to use Close and Far.

The prepositions are "Close To" and "Far From". Don't confuse the two. Also, remember that the first nouns is the subject, and therefore emphasized.

Examples (Close To):
The supermarket is close to the liquor store. (space)
San Diego is close to the Mexican border. (space)
I'm close to finishing the project. I only need one more day. (time)
She said that she was close to a nervous breakdown. (time)
Even though they live in different cities, he's still close to his family. (emotion)
The boy is closest to his mother because his father works all the time. (emotion)

Note: When describing emotions, you can also say, "He and his family are close." or "The boy and his mother are close."


Examples (Far From):
Unfortunately, our hotel room is far from the beach. (space)
My home is far from my university. (space)
We dream of tourist flights into space, but this is far from a realization. (reality)
The battle is finished, but the war is far from over. (time)

Note: Commonly, far is only used for talking about space. For reality and time, you only use it to express a very long distance. Never use it for emotion.


Examples (Not Close To):
We've been working for days, but we're not close to finishing. (time)
I'm not close to my family. (emotion)

Note: When you express a long distance, it's often better to use not close to. In some situation, far is too strong of an expression.

Marriage and Graduation

The two subjects of this post show how an event and the resulting status can be confused. Once your wedding has taken place, you are married. After that, you continue to have a marriage. Once your graduation has taken place, you are a graduate. The easiest way to explain all of this is to give a succession of examples (Note: watch the prepositions). Enjoy!

Example (Marriage):
I am a married man.
I'm married to a lovely woman.
I have been married for five years now.
We were married in the summer of 2005.
Our wedding was in a church.
I believe we have a very happy marriage.
A good marriage takes a lot of work, but it's worth it.


Example (Graduation):
I am a graduate.
I graduated with honors.
I have been a graduate for five years now.
I graduated in the summer of 2005.
My parents came to my graduation.
My brother will graduate next year.
He is graduating from the same university I did.

Monday, June 28, 2010

Memory (part 2)

To Memorize means to commit something to memory.

To Remember
means:
(#1) to recall information from memory.
(#2) to not forget something.
(#3) to put information into your memory (e.g. to commit something to memory).



As you see, memorize and remember (#3) have the same definition. However, in everyday English, they aren't used in the same way.

Memorize is commonly used when remembering long lists of information.
Example: I memorized all of the countries and their capitals.
Sylvia is trying to memorize all of the chemicals in the periodic table.
When I was younger, I wanted to memorize the entire dictionary.

Hot Tip!!!: In all of these examples, you can replace memorize with learn.


Remember is used much more broadly than memorize because it has several more meanings.

Example: I remember where he works, but I don't remember where he lives.
This is embarrassing. I can't remember my own phone number.
Do you remember your old friend Richard from middle school?
I didn't remember my girlfriend's birthday, and she broke up with me.
I have to remember a lot of information for the test next week.
I tried to remember what my mother said, but I couldn't.
Remember me when I'm gone!

Memory (part 1)

Memory is a grammatically difficult subject for many English learners.
The events and actions regarding memory are the same or similar, and we don't always know how to treat them separately. This is a short guide for how to do that.

Memory (uncountable) is the ability to record information or events, and the ability to recall them later.

Memory (countable) is a record of information or events. (pl. memories)


Hot Tip!!!: Since the ability to recall information and the information use the same word, try to use the plural "memories" when discussing the information.

For example:
"I have a bad memory." means you cannot recall information easily.
"I have bad memories of my childhood." means you recall negative events from your childhood.
In the same way, "I have a great memory." means you can recall information easily.
"I have great memories of my vacation." means you recall great events from your vacation.

If you want to discuss one particular memory (countable), it's probably better to use the word "experience."

Example:
"I have a bad memory of that date." (not preferable)
"I had a bad experience during that date." (good)

"The earthquake was the worst memory of my life."
"The earthquake was the worst experience of my life."


Also, it's possible to say "I have no memory of/from..." which is the countable form and means you cannot recall specific information or events.

Example:
"I have no memory of last night." means you probably drank too much and forgot what you did.
"I have no memory from that summer camp." means you went to a summer camp, but you can't recall anything about it.


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Friday, June 25, 2010

Crying and Tears

Everybody has heard the verb to cry, but there are many more ways to express your sadness than just crying.

To sob means to cry with falling tears and gasping. Example: I woke up to the sound of my brother sobbing.

To shed a tear means that one teardrop has fallen down your cheek. To shed tears could mean several tears have fallen. Likewise, tears can roll down your cheek, or a stream of tears could be flowing down your cheek.

If tears flood your eyes, it means they are in your eyes, but haven't fallen. My eyes welled up with tears means exactly the same thing.

You can be teary-eyed and misty-eyed, which means your close to crying.

A tearjerker is a very sad movie.

However, if you want to appear strong, you can choke back the tears, which means you prevent yourself from crying.

Once you've finished crying, your eyes may be puffy or swollen.

So, have some ice cream and take a bath.
This too will pass. ^^
Lance Powell

Thursday, June 24, 2010

"-ate" Verb Mistakes

Even with high level speakers, I hear a few common mistakes with "-tion" nouns that become "-ate" verbs. There are are many words that can be converted correctly. For example:

I made a donation.
I'm going to donate money.


The activation of the security system hasn't begun.
I'm going to activate the security system.


The extermination of the rodents will be messy.
We will exterminate the rodents brutally.




Sometimes, the noun and verb don't share the same meaning:

I'm going on vacation.
I'm going to vacate the country. (to vacate means "to leave an area, usually by public order or to avoid a disaster")


Some "-ate" verbs are incorrect. These are the four most common:
We had a conversation.
We conversed.
We conversated. (incorrect)

We need to make a reservation at a hotel.
We need to reserve a room.
We need to reservate a room. (incorrect)

I gave a presentation.
I presented a lot of information.
I presentated. (incorrect)

You're pronunciation is clear.
You pronounce your words very clearly.
You pronunciate very well.


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Monday, June 21, 2010

Care About or Care For

Today, let's discuss the phrasal verbs care about and care for, which is a major source of confusion for English learners.

Caring about something only refers to your feeling towards it. Example: #1) Soccer is a stupid sport and I don't care about the World Cup. #2) I care about the environment, but I feel powerless to do anything about it. #3) I send my children to an institute because I care about their education.

Caring for someone can be a very strong statement of your emotions, usually it is romantic. Example: I care for you, but I can't marry you.

Caring for something can also be an action, and mean that you are providing for their basic needs. Example: #1) I cared for my husband while he was sick. #2) My children need me and it's me duty to care for them.

However, to not care for something can mean you dislike it. (Note: it is a little formal, so most people use: "don't like") Example: #1) I don't care for caramel coffee. #2) I don't care for action movies.

That's it today.
Take care! ^^
Lance Powell

Face

Hello All!
I hope you had a satisfying weekend.

Today's subject is expressions with face.

Poker face
Lately, many people are asking me how to use the expression, "Poker Face" (Thank you, Lady Gaga), so I would like to explain that first. You have a poker face when you are trying to hide your true emotions. In the game poker, you don't want people to know what's in your hand, so you hide your happiness or disappointment. In a similar fashion, there are times when you don't want people to know what you're thinking. Look at these examples:

#1) I told her I loved her, but she didn't show her emotion. She wore a poker face as she listened to me.
#2) I heard a rumor about massive firings at work. When I questioned my boss, he put on a poker face and said that he couldn't tell me anything.


Saving Face
When you try to save yourself from shame, embarrassment or humiliation, this is called saving face. This can involve a very serious situation, or minor embarrassment. For example:

#1) The man tripped in the middle of the street. He tried to save face by pretending he did it on purpose.
#2) The son betrayed his family. In order to save face, the father disowned his son and kicked him out of the house.

To Face (Your Fears)
When you use "face" as a verb, it literally means "to look towards". However, sometimes it means to deal with a situation courageously. Look at the following examples:

#1) The sofa in our living room faces the TV.
#2) The window to our apartment faces the river, so we have an excellent view.

#3) Everybody faces challenges within their life.
#4) If you are afraid of something, you can only improve by facing those fears.
#5) I've faced many hardships throughout my life.
#6) I can't face another day at work.


Face-to-Face
Lastly, face-to-face has the exact same meaning as "in person." However, it is not the same as "one-on-one", which only includes two people. Sometimes, face-to-face implies two people, but it can be more people. Look at these examples:

#1) I need you to understand the situation perfectly, which is why we're talking face-to-face now.
#2) I have news to tell you, but I want to wait until we can meet face-to-face.

Thursday, June 17, 2010

Kicked Out, Let Go, and Dumped

There are many expressions for getting rid of someone you don't want any more. However, different entities have different ways of getting rid of unwanted people.

to kick someone out - this can be permanent removal from your home, or from a place where you're not wanted at the moment.

Example:
#1a) My parents kicked me out of the house because I quit school.
#1b) The landlord kicked the tenant out because he didn't pay his rent.
#2a) I was kicked out of the bar for starting a fight.
#2b) They kicked the vagrant out of the building for sleeping in the restroom.
#2c) My girlfriend kicked me out of bed for eating crackers.

to let someone go - this means you've been fired from your job.
#1) My company let me go because I was habitually late to work.

to be dumped - this means your boyfriend/girlfriend broke up with you, ending the relationship.
#1) Marie dumped Ronnie because of his excessive drinking.
#2) My ex-boyfriend dumped me because he thinks I'm too materialistic.

Wednesday, June 16, 2010

Going on foot

Many English learners make a common error when talking about their mode of transportation.

Let's say, I ask you the question: "How did you get here today?"

You can answer: "I came here...by car, by bus, by subway, by bicycle, by train, by taxi, by plane, by UFO, by jet, by rocket..."

However, if you are healthy or environmentally conscious, you might prefer to walk. In this case, the answer is not "by walking." The correct answer is: "on foot."

Still, if you want to avoid prepositions, you can use the expression "I took..." for public transportation. Example: I took a bus. I took a taxi. I took the subway. I took a ferry...

Almost, Most, Mostly, Most of the Time

This is a short guide on how to use: almost, most, mostly and most the time. These terms are often used erroneously in sentences. Read the following examples and practice using them.


#1)

Most
penguins have black feathers.
(meaning = more than 50% of penguins have black feathers)

Most mothers love their children.
(meaning = more than 50% of mothers love their children)

#2)

Most of the time
, penguins have black feathers.
(meaning = same as #1. more than 50% of penguins have black feathers)

Most of the time, mothers love their children.
(meaning #1 = more than 50% of mothers love their children)
(meaning #2 = mothers spend more time loving their children than not loving their children)

#3) Almost all penguins have black feathers.
(meaning = close to 100% of all penguins have black feathers)

Almost all mothers love their children.
(meaning = close to 100% of all mothers love their children)

#4)

Penguins have mostly black feathers.
(meaning = some of the individual feathers are more than 50% black)

Mothers mostly love their children.
(meaning = not clear. perhaps, mothers love their children, but their love is mixed with other emotions.)


Common Errors:
#1) Most of penguins have black feathers. Most of mothers love their children.
#2) Almost penguins have black feathers. Almost mothers love their children.


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Tuesday, June 15, 2010

It's my lucky day!

Today, one of my conversation classes had the topic of casinos, and I thought it would be appropriate to talk about luck. These are some common expressions for luck.

#1) Your luck is rubbing off on me.
Explanation: If you are around someone who is lucky and, like them, you start to experience good luck.

#2) It's my lucky day!
Explanation: Some days it seems like only good things are happening to you. Use this expression on these days.

#3) Better luck next time.
Explanation: You failed in this attempt, but next time could be better.

#4) Wish me luck.
Explanation: I'm doing something that requires luck, so please give me your support.

#5) good luck charm - This is any item that brings you good luck, such as: a piece of your baby blanket, a lucky coin, a rabbit's foot, a four-leaf clover, etc.

#6) "to be lucky" vs. "to get lucky"
Be careful with these expressions. Of course, "to be lucky" is the state of having luck.
However, "to get lucky" is commonly used for convincing someone to have sex with you.

For example:
"I'm going to the horse track today, and I think I'll be lucky." means that you expect to win money at the race track.

"I'm going to the horse track today, and I think I'll get lucky." means that you expect to have sex at the race track.

This is a small difference, but it can be very significant, for both you and the horse.

Good luck, everyone!
~~Lance

Sunday, June 13, 2010

How do I...? How can I...?

Many English students use the phrase "how can I" to discuss ability, instructions or directions. In a question, this isn't incorrect, but it's certainly incorrect in the answer.

Example:
How can I fix my computer? (OK, but not preferred)
I don't know how can I fix my computer. (incorrect)


Since the uses for "can" are confusing to many people, it's best avoided wherever possible.

Correct Examples:
How do I fix my computer? (correct)
I don't know how to fix my computer. (correct)

#1) How do I get to the bank from here?
#2) I know how to swim, but I'm not very good at it.
#3) I don't know how to play the guitar, but I can play the piano.
#4) How do I make you love me?
#5) I don't know how to speak Chinese.
#6) I'm learning how to drive a car.

Practice using it.
It's the best way to learn.
~~Lance Powell

P.S.

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Saturday, June 12, 2010

Hooray!

In honor of Korea's first victory in the World Cup. I want to teach you a few verbs for supporting athletes, performers, etc.

#1a) to cheer for someone - This is yelling, screaming and shouting your support for a team or athlete, hoping that they will win. Example: I cheered loudly for the Korean soccer team during the game.

#1b) to cheer someone on - This is similar to "to cheer for", but it suggests that you know the person you're cheering for personally. Example: My mother cheered me on during my soccer game.

#2) to root for someone - This is simply hoping that a particular team will win, but may not include cheering. Example: I rooted for Korea when they played against Greece.

#3a) to applaud for someone - This is clapping, usually reserved for a performance and not sports. Example: The audience applauded for the actors when the play was finished.

#3b) to applaud someone for something - This is a little different than "applaud for", as it can be used as a synonym for "congratulate" or "honor". There is no actual clapping in this case. Example: The teacher applauded his students for their hard work.

#4) to go wild - The fans are really excited and showing their support intensely, through wild screaming, dancing, crying, etc. Example: Korea scored a goal in the first five minutes, and the fans went wild.

That's all for today. And Korea, good luck against Argentina! Really...good luck.
~~Lance Powell

Friday, June 11, 2010

Compared to and Compared with

Today, one student asked me when you can use 'compared to' and 'compared with'. At that moment, I didn't have an answer. Now, I've done my research and this is it:

"compared to" is used when equating two things as whole.
Example: The proud father compared his daughter to an angel.
(e.g. The proud father thinks his daughter is like an angel.)

"compared with" is used when making an in-depth comparison.
Example: The proud father compared his daughter with an angel. He decided they were similar because they're both beautiful, but dissimilar because angels have wings and his daughter doesn't.

Other times, using "with" or "to" is commonly done by native speakers, so don't dwell on it.
Example: The weather very cold compared with/to yesterday.

~~Lance

An English Blog - - Statement Of Purpose

Hello Visitors,
My name is Lance and I've been teaching at an English institute in Seoul for the past year. I teach adults and, while my classes are usually conversational, I do include a large amount of error correction.

As you can imagine, I've heard quite a number of mistakes by English learners. Many are common mistakes specific to Korean students, but I encounter other mistakes which are unique and, quite frankly, hilarious.

I'm starting this blog because I want to make my students, past and present, aware of the most common English problems and be able to fix them. Of course, this blog is free and open to anybody. My only hope is that people find it useful or somehow interesting.

I'll make an effort to include a post every workday.
Enjoy! ~~Lance Powell